Friday, September 08, 2006

in a dilemma...

question:

"what would you do if someone persistently asked you to drink and go partying, what would be the best answer?"

a) i dislike alcohol and loud music
b) it's not my scene/cup of tea
c) i just don't.

i tried time and time again to say no; but nonetheless, they are still pestering me...

question: what should i do?

its funny how they keep on asking knowing the answer before hand... so, what should i do? any ideas?

i'm planning on moving out.. everyone's asking me too... its hard to live with these 2 housemates when they are constantly drunk... drinking up to approx 7 bottles a day... also, they swear as if its part of their vocab. they are generally pretty nice guys but i dunno... i'm in a dilemma and i need a quick solution soon.. :)

phing

7 comments:

Anonymous said...

tell them firmly, "won't you respect my decision?"

swearing is not very edifying to the soul, that's still ok.. but having drunk hsemates drinking up to 7 bottles a day...

phing, i'd say move out if this situation persists. what if, in their state of drunkenness, assaulted you? now, im getting a lil concerned abt you.

Jamiesrjam said...

HAHA... OK Felix, I'm trying to guess whether you were laughing goofily while writing that last bit although I'm sure you meant it.

I see two choices:

a) put up with it and stay
b) move out

Moving out means short term hassle and depending on how you broach this subject to the boys, could hurt their feelings or make yourself look "uncool". I don't think they're that nice if they keep badgering you to party with them. That's equal to harassment too.

And if you ever feel threatened by them in any way, tell them you belong to this cultist group called SU who will voodoo them nicely. Gosh, this is so lame beats everything Gerard has ever done...

Anonymous said...

eh, i didn't laugh at all la... im darn serious... hahaha! ok, now that seemed a lil contradictory... but i really am serious. lol.

san*shine said...

haha........ phing.. i think its better to move out...!

Chickenriceboy said...

Phing..before you move out.. Start praying for your housemate and start praying for your house.
IN the meantime start looking out for a place to stay.
Drunkeness may leads to a lot of things and it may not be too wise to put up with these 2 drunkards.

Joshua

phing said...

thanx for the advice guys n gurl... :) ill see what i can do! truly appreciate u peeps heaps :P

Neoh-J said...

move out definitely. =>

In the mean time, just be careful k... durnkard men are the worst people to have around in a house. They tend to get bold and try stuff they would not normally do without even realizing it...

My prayer will be with you